Aren't they cute?

Today marks the 15th installment in the SJH Better Parenting series. During the course of this series many people have approached me and said, "Steve, you are such an awesome parent. How can I be like you?" Well, the short answer is: You can't. Extensive hypnotherapy, combined with heavy chemical use, have empowered me to be uniquely sanguine in the face of even the most harrowing parenting situations.

But take heart. You can take steps to be a better parent, and you can do it without the frustration, rage, and court orders that so often bog us down.

Today's tip is a simple one, and one that is often overlooked. If in the course of a given situation you find yourself at a dead-end, unable to arrive at an agreeable solution or resolve the tension with your child, simply move this item up in your mental checklist. You will soon find yourself moving forward with a fresh outlook and healthier perspective.

Parenting Tip #15: Look under the sofa cushions, because they probably hid something there, too.

Whether it's the car keys, your checkbook, or the spatula that was right there one !@#$%^ minute ago, a quick peek under the cushions may be all it takes to get back on track. Before you know it you'll be on the road, paying the babysitter, or flipping that now rock-hard fried egg.

Next week: The roof: It's easier to get to than you think.

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Please let me know if you will or will not be playing hoops at St. John's this weekend. We tip off at 8:00 a.m. Saturday, as usual. Bring the kids!